Monday, May 20, 2013


Mother Henriette Delille

Religious, Foundress

To appreciate Henriette Delille accomplishments, it is important to remember what life was like in the 1800’s.  In a growing young country, there were many financial, economic and social opportunities for ambitious white men.  White women had fewer opportunities.  They were unable to vote and had few education options.  Most married and raised a family.  Now, try to image what life was like for slaves. Forbidden by law to learn to read or write, they could be sold or beaten at the whim of the master.  Some were able to buy their freedom or were freed by their masters. Some freed slaves owned property and even had slaves themselves. Nonetheless, they were still limited by their skin color.

In New Orleans there was another class of people called “free people of color”.  These were free people of mixed race.  They were not slaves but were never fully accepted by white society.  Women of color were not legally able to marry outside their racial group yet marrying within their class meant their own children would have few opportunities. Many free women of color saw an chance to help their children have a better life by not marrying at all but by becoming the mistresses of wealthy white men.  If being white was the ‘key’ to success, then their light-skinned children would have far more opportunities for advancement. The children coulc and often were acknowledge by their fathers, given their father’s name, baptized, educated and in some cases heirs to their fathers estates.  The daughters would do as their mothers and form liaisons with wealthy white men.
Henriette was born in 1812, the youngest of three children.  Her mother and grandmother had formed liaisons with wealthy white men.  Henriette grew up surrounded by a large extended family. She was raised to take her place as a mistress as had the generations before her. God had other plans for young Henriette.

In 1824, Henriette met Sister St. Marthe Fontier, a French nun who had opened a school for free people of color.  Sister St. Marthe taught the children during the day and their elders at night.  Her instructions included the teachings of the Catholic church as well as reading and writing.  Henriette and several other young girls were inspired by Sister to teach religion to the slaves.  Henriette refused to carry on the tradition of being a mistress and had found her life’s work.  She prayed, visited the sick and taught religion.
In 1835, Henriette sold some property she had inherited and with two other women set out to establish a community of black Sisters .   They named the new community the Sisters of the Presentation. This attempt ended in failure because of a law that made it illegal for white and blacks to establish close contact with one another.  One of the founding members, Marie Jeanne Aliquot was a white woman from France.

Henriette had the support of the Bishop of New Orleans and Father Etienne Rousslon. Many other people in the city thought the idea of black nuns was ridiculous.  In 1842, Henriette and Juliette Gaudin began again and established the Sisters of the Holy Family.  

The sisters worked among the poor and needy. They often went to bed hungry, having given their food away. Mother Henriette was responsible for the physical and spiritual well-being of her community.  During these years of constant work and worry, her health was bad but with God’s grace and strength she was able to continue her work. 
It wasn’t until November 21, 1852 that the sisters were able to take private vows to ’dedicate the rest of their lives to the service of God, the Church and the poor’. Mother Henriette died in 1862 at the age of 50.  At her death there were 12 sisters in the community.  By 1865, eight women had left the community.  It seemed as if the community  would fail.  It wasn’t until 1869, seven years after their Foundress death, that the small group  received a rule, were able to wear a habit and made public vows of poverty, chastity and obedience.

Eventually God blessed the community with new members and it grew. The Sisters of the Holy Family operate schools, care for the elderly and the very young.  Mother Henrietta’s cause for canonization was introduced in 1989.  

For more information see:

The Sisters of the Holy Family  www.sistersoftheholyfamily.com

Or

“Heroic Catholic of the Twentieth Century”

By Sister Elizabeth Ann Barkett, SJW

New Hope Publishing, New Hope, KY.

 

 

 

 

 

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